Anger

If you're angry at a loved one, hug that person. And mean it. You may not want to hug - which is all the more reason to do so. It's hard to stay angry when someone shows they love you, and that's precisely what happens when we hug each other.Never try to hurt urslf when u are angry .I have been a victim of my anger.Yesterday, i hurt myself and banged my head into the wall,into the bed.I was angry becoz sumone i love hurted me emotionally but i did nt even think about people who love me..people who care for me and people who want me in their lives.If the person who hurt me would have been with me to talk to,to hug me ,i would not have taken the step of hurting myself physically.Consider how much more you often suffer from your anger and grief, than from those very things for which you are angry and grieved.I am writing this for people who doesnt want to loose their loved ones bcoz of anger..If u love them dont let them carry a grudge coz to carry a grudge is like being stung to death by one bee..If they are angry at you and you know that you are wrong hug them,make them feel loved and wanted.I am sharing this on my blog coz i dnt want anyone to hurt themselves in anger...Anger is a killing thing: it kills the man who angers, for each rage leaves him less than he had been before - it takes something from him..Buddha said Holding on to anger is like grasping a hot coal with the intent of throwing it at someone else; you are the one who gets burned.

captured and imprisoned you are in the file that rests on my desktop which I open every other while!

Expectations

I guess I shouldn't keep expectations from sum people who claim that they love me.is it a bad thing that i sort of do though ?i cant really help it.im sort of lost and confused.i dont like it.i wish i were a mind reader.or that you could express things more clearly.yesterday night was the worst night in my lyf...I managed to survive jus bcoz of my mum or i wud'nt have even seen todays morning.Last night i actually realised that expectations could kill...

Dreaming...

Many of us write during the saddest of our times. It can surely be a mood lifter to put our feelings on paper or these days jus type it down and give our emotions some perspective...It has been 4 days since m sad but still I wana dream expecting it wud come tru....

I wana dream today about a prince on a white horse,
coming to take me away.

To somewhere all billowy, where fantasy lies,
to tropical gardens and silvery skies,
to a castle with smiles, all pink in a cloud,
where joy is the language and laughter the sound,
and pain is unheard of and hate is not found.

I'm believing this dream in a world all too real -
God, please give me the faith to believe in it still.

POISON

Words that need to be spoken should not accumulate inside.
The hurt, pain or jealousy a person feels can not hide.

Sorrow and anger can be and will be suppressed.
But this only leads to a person feeling depressed.

Anger is a deadly toxin in which the body it flows.
When it takes over limb by limb, everyone knows.

The body - The mind controls and manipulates.
As the poison enters the veins and circulates.

When the poison reaches the heart it's too late.
Disastrous emotions take over such as revenge and hate.

The antidote to cure these emotions, is not so hard to find.
We must search to learn to control our spirited bodies and minds.

WOKE UP FROM A DREAM...

I wokeup from a dream that completely broke my heart.
In my dream you found your new love.
and I was there to see it all.
i wonder if it's real and you already have found someone new.
either it's just me being paranoid of you finding a new love,
or my dreams trying to tell me that you have found someone.
im nervous for the day that i see you with someone other than me.
went back to sleep, and had another dream.
this one was completely different..
but let's not talk about that

MIND YOUR TOUNGE

There is perhaps no human being on this planet who does only good things without commiting any sins.We all err,and the tounge is most of the times a culprit.Although the horse has great strength,it has no understanding;so it must be harnessed with bits and briddle to make him obey according to the will of a rider.
similarly,the tounge is a small part of human body,but its power and influence for the good or bad is amazingly greater then its size.It is like a small lighted match stick which lights big fires.
every kind of beasts ,birds or creature of the sea and earth has been tamed by mankind,but no man can tame the false,deceitful,and perverse tounge that works like the piercing of the sword.It is unruly evil,full of deadly poison.At one end,the tounge blesses the lord god and at the other end it curses the men who has been made in the image of the god.From the same mouth comes blessings as well as curse.
So the tounge should be tamed.We should teach our children to speak gracious words fm very beginning.We must realise that the harsh and nasty remarks result in problems and creates differences and fights.
One must seek to be at peace with others preferring them to yourself.Discard any attitude or practice that hinders the tounge for speaking kind ,merciful, and polite words.It is only through a sustained daily effort that one can apply elgant words in life.
The Bible says"Pleasant words are llike honey comb,sweetness to the soul and health to the bones."
So be careful in what you say,measure everyword .Donot speak unless it is necessary.
The person who is humble and slow in anger is better than the mighty man of anger.One who speaks politely and sweetly is loved and appretiated by everybody.Dont' you want to be such a person?